When you decide to get married you are committing to spend your life with someone, in sickness or in health and for richer and poorer. However, the pressures of modern society and to some extent, the ease of communicating with people around the world; lead many people to contemplate another choice or path in life. Working too hard and spending an excessive amount of hours at the office is often associated with office romances as people spend more time with their colleagues than their partners. Sometimes it is simply a case of one mistake, but one that your partner cannot live with.
Unfortunately, in many cases this leads to divorce and this can become a very stressful and difficult time. This is usually much more complicated if there are children involved. The route many couples take is through the courts, where an agreement will be defined by the judge and must be adhered to. In fact, this approach can be detrimental to all parties involved as personal information and activities are revealed and will damage relationships.
It is a much better solution to attempt to use the services of a mediator to find a mutually acceptable common ground and leave both parties feeling good about the arrangement without the need to air dirty laundry in public or spend the considerable sums of money that court cases usually cost. A solution which has been discussed rationally and calmly, with a third party present, will usually be easy to stick to as all parties have had a say in its make-up.
In Connecticut, family lawyers David M. Moore, Esq., LLC (http://www.a1conflictresolver.com/family-law/) specialize in creating an amicable arrangement where the finances, assets and, most importantly, the children’s interests are placed first and resolved in a fair way. They have an excellent success rate.
The firm was funded by David M. Moore three years ago, although the firm is young, Mr. Moore actually has over twenty seven years of experience as an attorney. He also has over one hundred hours of training in a variety of mediation techniques and will provide a one to one service, which will ensure the conflict can be resolved amicably.