1) Just like you are stimulated by what you hear and what you feel, men are more stimulated by what they see. So, next time you are hitting the sheets, don't insist on switching off those lights! Give him all the visual pleasure he needs- invest in hot lingerie or give him a striptease! You will get him excited in no time at all!

2) Ask him what he wants- men are quite vocal about what excites them and what does not. Unlike women who feel a bit shy, you are most likely to get a direct answer if you ask him directly. You can even talk about it when you are sharing a glass of wine or relaxing. It is better to know what he likes directly. It will save you a lot of trouble.

3) Nobody likes a hard and rough touch, especially in the initial stages. Also, all men may not enjoy oral sex. So, next time you are pleasuring him, make sure you use your teeth and fingers gently!

4) Men have erogenous zones too! Try caressing his nipples with yours or gently handling his penis. If you have any doubt, ask him whether he would like more pressure. It is better than just assuming that he does!

5) Don't push ahead with the sex. Instead, when you feel him climaxing, hold back for some time. You can even stop for a few minutes! Continuing this rhythm will arouse him no end!

6) Talk dirty. Men love it when you describe just what they are doing to you. This will arouse him and get you all that you like- win win!

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